Imbued with the Spirit and Strength of NatureStandard
It has been at least a month since I’ve written anything substantial about gardening or plants here on my blog. Funny to have been so silent, but I’ve been rediscovering so many things about who I am, and I think it’s safe to say, I have been growing a great deal.
Some days I feel like that vine that ate the garage last summer. I’m blooming and blooming and I just cannot stop growing and reaching for the sunshine.
|Lan Su Chinese Garden in downtown Portland, OR. I introduced some amazing new friends from Paris to this Stumptown gem last month.|
Much of what’s been happening has also felt a lot like suturing a wide open wound. Long ago I forgot where I was going, even where I wanted to go. I only recently realized that most of my adult life has been based solely on what I was able to do within many physical and personal limitations. I hated it.
|Pomegranate bloom at Lan Su Chinese Garden.|
|This Yucca filamentosa aka Adam’s Needle is one of the first plants I ever germinated. It was important for me to really enjoy its blooms this year.|
Ever since I can remember my life has been imbued with a love and interest in nature and plants. Embracing this part of myself has been a big part of my recent activities as I’ve sought out many different kinds of activities beyond the garden gate. It is difficult to describe how these activities have been guided, but that’s because it’s been a day-to-day thing.
|Streamers from an outdoor concert I attended in Portland with my cousin.|
I have been enjoying every moment and feeling everyday and the sensations from both all feel like gifts now as I try to enjoy as many different kinds of activities as I am able to outdoors and with friends or family. After having spent so many summers indoors, unable to walk much, this is a huge change for me.
I am remembering what it feels like to filter and feel things other than the pain I felt for so many years from the swelling and discomfort my condition caused. I am such a sensation seeker and I have been loving all the things I’ve been feeling and sensing again.
|May Pole ribbons from the Finnish American Folk Festival of Naselle, WA.|
I also still see plants everywhere.
|The finished piece—and yes, this is what a summer sky can look like in the Pacific Northwest.|
Even when I’m enjoying other things I still see their meaning and importance all around me in different communities and groups. I take note of how others care about the plants where they live. It still fascinates me to see the nostalgia we attach to things we cannot control.
I have also committed myself to seeing and doing other things too. That’s why I haven’t been here too much recently. I am expanding growth in every direction right now.
I am growing to retrain myself.
I will prune what I need to again later.
|I felt trapped in a corner too for a long time. I think we have all had this feeling.|
Plants are still at my center.
|I still adore clipped shrubs very much—especially when so much depends upon the white cat beside them.|
I say this as I still see myself overlapping my love of art history and design with plant life more and more. I am imbuing meaning and emotions into so many things when I touch them—even when it’s just a snapshot.
|Driftwood at the Washington Coast.|
Then there is the ineffable experience of my region and its natural beauty and I have been re-experiencing my place here recently probably more than anything else. It creates a sacred feeling for me and it is silent. Everything about who I am springs from this place deep inside of me and the silence brings me much peace and calm.
|A typical coastal salmon river in the Pacific Northwest.|
I am not well-rested yet, but I am working on it. Since I have at least 10 years to catch up on it might take me awhile to feel more calm, collected and self-possesed.
|My father and I as I channel my own inner Jacques Cousteau.|
Spending time near water has been a high priority for me. I miss spending time in boats and this is something I plan to do more of in the future.
|Two Great Blue Herons we spotted in a tree near the mouth of the river in the tidal zone.|
The sounds, sights, and sensations on the water felt like home to me.
|Cow Parsnip (Heracleum maxium) seeds.|
I saw plenty of seeds while on my adventures too. (Of course I had to add those.)
|Native Vine Maple (Acer macrophyllum) reaching over the water.|
I also very much enjoyed observing the many communities of plants along the riverbank—but that’s a whole other post.
|Begonia boliviensis in my garden.|
Then there is my garden back at home. I have not been in it much as I still connect a lot of unhappy memories with toiling in its soil. I buried a lot of distress and unhappiness here. There were many lonely hours spent wondering about my marriage. I also worked hard on my plants as a means to build the denial deep inside of myself of the reality that I no longer liked or even respected my husband very much. I was in denial of this fact for a very long time.
To say we’d grown apart is now an understatement since I now know we never grew or built anything together in the first place. I think in many ways this lack of a relationship is what drove me to plants more than anything.
I am currently separating these feelings from my garden.
And the cats are doing as they please…
Right now I am editing the plants. I still have no idea where I will be living a year from now, but no matter what, this needs to be done. Maybe I will be here, maybe I won’t.
Oddly, I was driven to remove plants I’d planted that I’d purchased long ago because my ex had expressed some kind of interest in them.
The wine grapes were also some of the first plants to go.
And now as my garden is in a stage where it looks like the bedroom of a rebellious and messy teenager I stand firmly again on terra firma. Sure there are dead plants in pots like the plates of rotting food that often get misplaced beside the dirty socks in the rooms of our youth across the nation—but I am looking at this now and I am laughing. It is seriously funny to me.
Someone keeps telling me, “It’s ok.” As I look around at everything I just keep laughing. Here in this moment it might seem like I have a lot to do, but I’ll get it done. I am pretty sure my friend it correct. No matter what, I’ve been through a lot, and it will be ok.